Yesterday’s Daily Mail; what follows will sicken Facebook fans

March 11th, 2010
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If I’m honest I didn’t bat an eyelid when I read the Mail’s article yesterday morning entitled “I posed as a girl of 14 on Facebook. What followed will sicken you”.

We’ve blogged in the past about the popular press’ general negative mood around social networking sites and pointed out that people who are going to commit awful crimes have always found a way to do so.

It would seem now though that those sites are ready to take a stand. Facebook is used as an easy catch all term to whip up an aura of fear amongst parents about what their kids are up to online; in the case of The Mail’s article yesterday the journalist wasn’t even referring to Facebook and an over-zealous sub-editor had selected the network for the headline.

Facebook is taking admirable measures to safeguard its younger members who are undoubtedly much safer there than in some unmoderated forum. It’s definitely important for parents to be aware of what their children are up to online but it’s equally important that the press act responsibly in their portrayal of the online world.

Whose fault is it anyway?

February 25th, 2009

Yesterday it was the Mail and today it’s the Star; social media continues to fall foul of the papers.

Their outrage has been pointed at social networking sites which according to ‘an eminent scientist’ will ‘harm a child’s brain’.

Is Facebook carrying damaging subliminal messages? Is Twitter releasing invasive alien creatures through the screen? Not that I’ve noticed.

Actually what Susan Greenfield is saying is that because children are using social networking sites their attention spans are reduced.

I’m not a neuroscientist so I can’t make any claim to refute this. What I do refute is her extrapolation from this that children will lose the ability to communicate effectively.

She suggests that the rise in the use of both social media and autism may be linked and even my A Level Psychology tells me that correlation does not equate to cause and effect.

On the contrary surely social media encourages communication: children in the UK talking to Japanese, American and Kenyan children about their interests can’t be doing their communication skills any harm.

This story reminded me of another young girl who last week received 70% burns from a sun bed because she was too young to be using it and went on it for longer than instructed.

Her mother claimed in the media that the sun bed was to blame. However used safely and with a little thought, as they are by most people, sun beds do not cause 70% burns.

Blaming social media is like blaming the sun bed. Children can use sites like Facebook in moderation to share their interests, research their hobbies or catch up with friends or they can sit in front of them for 7 hours a day bully their peers and play computer game like applications.

Surely which of these happens is down to the child and their parenting not the network.

The ‘Facebook Divorce’

February 6th, 2009

There is no denying that social communities enhance the way we live.

It’s given people new freedoms – a way to exchange news with friends and family, discover and develop new interests and share individual and group experiences.

But with new freedoms comes new responsibilities – a fact which a select few are yet to embrace.

Today, the Daily Mail reports on the first Facebook Divorce, the news of a woman who learnt of her husbands intention to split after he updated his status to read : “Neil Brady has ended his marriage to Emma Brady”.

This isn’t the first time people have abused their social circles – and it won’t be the last. Whether it’s online or over a pint in the pub – people who are too heartless to do the right thing and face their responsibilities will find new and cruel ways to hurt those around them.

Sadly the invention of Facebook means that essentially private stories like Emma Brady’s can be examined in great detail by the rest of the world. Beware of the dangers of conducting your emotional life via the internet.